When you know your deeper needs, you'll better understand how to find your heart's desire. If you're in a challenging relationship, skills that will help you improve communication and create more positive interactions with your partner. Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's relationship didn't work for reason that's why she wanted him badly. Let's just say that Brad wanted activities outside the relationship that didn't fit with his idea of commitment. Angelina's deeper needs were not necessarily to be with someone with looks or wealth, though she had explored her share of that and had ended up to superficial relationships with unavailable people. Even chemistry, the much-sought-after ingredient for relationship bliss, while important, isn't about love. Instead, Angelina and Brad are referring to the four elements-fire, air, water, and earth -- as expressed in the natural world and classical systems of thought. The elements describe every aspect of nature. They are in life. They are every part of life. They are in the world around us, from what we see, to the weather, to the behavior of our fellow man. Anything you see or think about falls within the elemental framework. Because the elements resonate in so many ways - including the ways - including the way people interact - they can offer insight into the dynamics of human relationships.